Saturday, November 1, 2008
Reunion Redux
Wednesday, October 22, 2008

I look at my 1958 graduation picture and recognize myself only because that’s my name next to it. This is a color version of the Murivian picture. There are some pictures in family albums that look pretty similar, but there’s no way I would have been able to pick myself at 18 out of a line-up if I hadn’t seen those pictures. So I don’t expect to be able to identify very many of my classmates. Please wear your name tags prominently. Thanks.
I think I was the only member of my BHS class to go to Carnegie Tech, known since the mid-60s as Carnegie Mellon University. If anyone else went there with me, please pull me aside at the reunion and remind me quietly, or send email. I wasn’t the only person from the Greater Boston area in my Carnegie class, but I don’t remember anyone else from Brookline.
Since I haven’t attended any reunions before this I have had contact with almost none of my classmates since graduation. I can probably list the exceptions. I went through high school in a daze. I didn’t get into MIT because they deemed me not yet mature enough to attend. My dad disagreed. I probably shared his opinion, but I wasn’t heartbroken by their rejection. I got to go away to college, free from the relentless demands my dad was so good at making. Don’t get me wrong – I loved my dad. I miss him. He always wanted me to do my best. When I left BHS in 1958 I wasn’t ready to deliver my best. Carnegie Tech figured that out after a couple of years and suggested that I take a year off to get my head together. After 18 months I went back to Pittsburgh to finish my degree and begin grad school, having firmly established that computers were the direction I was going in.
During that 18 month hiatus I associated with a few of my BHS classmate friends. I only had a few BHS classmate friends, and most of them were away from Boston finishing their undergraduate education. I was pretty much a geek during my high school years. My friends were my AP Math classmates, my AP Chemistry classmates and my AP Physics classmates. Those of you who were in those classes will correctly remember that those classes all had the same dozen students.
Gene Ring went to Harvard, and I spent a little time hanging out with him in the early 60s while he was still an undergraduate and I was on hiatus. We had some fun, but he was still a student and I was working. I must have met and socialized with another classmate or two during those 18 months. I remember vaguely somebody in our class disparaging another classmate over his education and career choices. I don’t know if the person he named ever finished his degree – I think he did, but I don’t know, and it doesn’t matter. I do know that he was considered one of the finest motorcycle mechanics in the Boston area in the early 60s. I respect accomplishment, so I respect the individual. I can’t remember who made the remarks. His face, his voice, and when and where we talked – that’s all gone now, expunged from my altogether too fragile memory.
Richard August, was it your guppies I tried to tend for a while? I apologize for screwing that up. …and I apologize if it was someone other than Richard August.
I returned to the Boston area in 1967 with my first wife and my son in tow. We wound up in Dedham and I worked along the 128 corridor, then eventually in Hopkinton before I took a downtown Boston high-tech job with Teradyne. They’ve moved out to Burlington now, but I’d retired in 2000, long before they did that. Until two or three years ago their facilities were in the South Station and Chinatown area, in space that is now far too valuable as residential space to be used for manufacturing.
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I ran into Peter Gens on Federal Street in Boston one day in the late 70s, but he had no idea who I was and ran off before I could tell him. This is what I looked like in the 70s. Sorry I frightened you, Peter. It's no wonder you didn't want to stand around listening to my explanation of how we knew each other.
I'm sure I ran into Roberta Taymore Lander now and again, especially during the late 60s and early 70s. Roberta and I spent a lot of time together during summers before we graduated because we summered within 100 yards of each other at a lake in New Hampshire. We hardly ever saw each other at BHS. (Some of my AP Math class may remember the lake, and the outing we had there. I can't remember what year that was - 1957)?
…and speaking of pleasant memories, I want to mention some of the people I’ve thought about over the years. Martha Birnbaum has popped up in my “What ever happened to” list from time to time. I remember a statue dance we won together, or perhaps we were runners up. Dancing with Martha was one of the highlights of my geeky high school career, and Marty, I don't mean that as an insult. I didn't dance with many other people. You actually seemed to like dancing with me. Did I miss a cue? Well, no surprise. I missed a lot of cues those days.
I traveled a lot when I lived on Beacon Hill – that was during my bachelor years, after my first marriage ended and before life as I now know it began. During that period I flew somewhere in the world at least once every month and when I was home I used taxis a lot. It doesn’t pay to own a car when you live on Beacon Hill, work downtown, and travel a lot. I’m sure I’m not the only member of our class who has, or at one time had, a charge account with Boston Cab. The late Arnold Deluty owned several taxi medallions and also drove a cab. He occasionally picked me up at my Beacon Hill apartment to take me to the airport, or sometimes the one mile to my office on cold, rainy days. I was shocked to find his name on the ‘In Memoriam’ page of the 1998 reunion book.
Adrianne and I moved to Sharon in 1987. When I wasn't in Singapore, Seoul, or Munich I took the train to work, and walked from Back Bay station to Chinatown every morning and back every evening. I developed a strong dislike for February. After a snowstorm the sidewalk on Herald Street looked like the surface of the moon, and one had to carefully dodge past the big puddles in the street to avoid being splashed by passing cars and trucks. In 1994 I'd had it with the snow and cold so I took an intra-company opportunity to move to Austin, Texas for a few years, then in 1998 to Manassas, Virginia. When my job in Manassas reached the end of it’s run late in 1999 I retired and we moved to West Palm Beach. We spend summers away from the Florida heat, though. Adrianne's has lots of friends in New Jersey and we have grandchildren in Westchester County, New York, (as well as Seattle).
Adrianne and I spent a couple of summers in Seattle living in a travel trailer (long story – ask again later). We had the trailer moved (I never towed it anywhere) to New Jersey in 2005 to follow our Seattle grandchildren east (They're back in Seattle again!) and sold it toward the end of this last summer. It is possible for two people to live in less than 400 square feet day in and day out and not wind up committing mayhem. That we are still together attests to that. It helped that we only tried that for four months or so at a stretch. We will rent a house for the summer of 2009. I got tired of the repairs the trailer needed. A twelve year old trailer is like a twelve year old car. Something breaks every day, and some of the repairs take more than a day to fix. With each passing day I got further behind.

Thursday, July 17, 2008
Moscow - June 16th - Our last day in Russia
We also saw the huge water tank in which Cosmonauts and Astronauts (yes, our Astronauts train at Star City too!) can practice spacewalks in weightless conditions. A life-size mockup of a piece of space equipment is assembled on a platform which can be lowered about 15 meters (47 feet) under water. The Astronauts and Cosmonauts are suited up and weighted to offset any buoyancy of the air in their suits and lowered into the tank so they can practice with the tools they might have to use in space.

We had lunch in the Star City cafeteria before we returned to the ship.
While I was at Star City, Adrianne went with a dozen or so other people and one of the Grand Circle Program Directors to Московская Хopaльнaя Cинaгoга, the Moscow Choral Synagogue. This is the main synagogue of Moscow and Russia. I wish I had been able to go on both tours. She had a wonderful time.
This was our final day. Adrianne did most of the packing that evening, and we put our bags outside the cabin door before midnight. We were up at 1:30 for breakfast and left for Domedovo Airport at 2:30. Our return flights to the US were eventless. We were back in our trailer, totally exhausted, before 2:00pm New York time.
Moscow, June 15th
Moscow - June 14th
Inside the Kremlin we saw the Armoury Museum. The Armoury Museum is a museum of armor, including chain mail and the like, but also on display are all of the crowns and thrones that were used by Russian royalty, and their coaches, ceremonial robes, and gowns, and also the famous Faberge Eggs. No pictures are allowed inside the Kremlin but there are plenty of pictures of this museum on the internet. All I can say is that the Faberge Eggs are more fabulous in person than can be imagined from a photograph. I was unimpressed by the jeweled crowns, but that’s just me. I’m not particularly impressed by oval cut rubies and they seem to dominate the crowns. I’m more the “glitter” type.
After lunch at a small (and wonderful) local restaurant, we headed back to the ship. Our group shutterbug got into trouble by taking a picture near where we were waiting for our bus. It turned out we were in front of the Russian equivalent of the Nuclear Regulatory Commission headquarters and an angry guard confronted him, but our guide, Nadia, smoothed things over rather quickly.
That evening Adrianne and I went to the National Russian Show performed by a professional dance ensemble. The dances were stylized versions of classical Russian, Ukranian, Cossack, and other nationality native dances. It was a wonderful show and there wasn't an empty seat in the house. We were amused to hear other audience members whispering about the “Amerikanski’s” in the audience.
Moscow - June 13th
Red Square is outside the walls of the Kremlin (“Fortress” in Russian. There was a kremlin in every city we visited on this cruise, including Uglich.), and the beautiful and very colorful St. Basil’s Cathedral, also called “The Cathedral of Intercession of the Virgin on the Moat”

Uglich - June 12th
Yaroslavl - June 11th
It was a very comfortable day in Yaroslavl – around 70 degrees – and we were again in a city big enough that we were encountering wedding parties just as we had in Saint Petersburg.We saw perhaps a dozen brides being photographed at the same scenic points that we were visiting.
It was also in Yaroslavl that we saw a bell performance outside the Savior-Transfiguration Monastery. I was stunned at how the bell ringer controlled all but one of the bells with the fingers of his left hand. Only the largest bell was controlled by his right hand.
I made a video of part of this performance but my “P.H.D.” camera (Push here, dummy!) doesn’t do a great job of videos. I believe that one member of our tour videotaped it. If that video shows up on YouTube I’ll add a reference to it here.
Goritsi - June 10th
This was also the day that those who wished to could paint their own Matreshka. Matreshkas are Russian nested dolls. The ship’s gift shop had Matreshkas for sale with as few as five nested dolls, and as many as 26. Obviously when there are that many dolls the smallest is tiny and the largest is quite a bit larger than Matreshkas with fewer nested dolls, but the quality of the work is also important. The larger sets were also tighter fitting, that is, each doll had thinner walls, and the smaller doll just fit with minimum room to spare into the next larger doll.
Adrianne painted a "blank" doll, that is, one with a printed outline but otherwise unpainted, and then over the course of the evening decorated it with snippets from such things as candy labels which she glued on using hair gel – we hadn’t thought to bring along a tube of proper glue. The next day all the dolls painted by passengers were on display and we were invited to vote for the prettiest. I voted several times for Adrianne’s doll, but she didn’t win. The winning doll was one of the few painted by a male passenger.
Wednesday, July 16, 2008
Khizi Island - June 9th
We didn’t get to Kizhi until after lunch. This was the first place where we experienced parallel docking. The dock at Kizhi is the length of one riverboat. When we arrived there were already three riverboats at the dock, lashed to each other in parallel. We docked in fourth position, so going ashore we had to cross the lobbies of three other ships.
Considering the temperature I considered not going ashore, but I’d already skipped Svir Stroi and had spent nearly a whole day in Saint Petersburg on the ship, so I broke out the scarf and gloves Adrianne so thought fully packed for me and went on the tour. The structures are splendid. That church with all of those onion domes is made entirely of wood, including the shingles on the onion domes. There is also a bell tower, and we were regaled with a bell concert. The bell ringer has a cord to each bell which he holds in one hand to ring the bells. The bell ringer was inside the bell tower and we couldn’t see how he was working the cords, but I couldn’t believe that one man could create the concert we heard even with two hands. (At a later port stop we got to see how it is done, and I have a movie. I am now a believer.)
When we got back to the Tikhi Don the three ships we had had to cross to get ashore were gone, so we entered our ship directly from the dock without having to cross through other ships. The ship staff met us with a hot beverage, quite welcome after having walked around for two hours in the cold.
Svir Strio - June 8th
Sunday morning we awoke in the middle of Lake Ladoga, but soon entered the Svir River. We were sailing upstream all the way to Moscow, and would eventually go through 18 or 19 locks, being elevated at all but one of them. Shortly after the first lock we docked at the town of Svir Stroi. It’s not a city – more like a village. It was much cooler here than in Saint Petersburg – perhaps not even 60 degrees, and rain threatened. The weather did not appeal to me, so I stayed on the ship. Those who went ashore were treated to a home visit – well, actually several homes since there were so many people, and visits were in two shifts to each home. The visitors enjoyed tea and piroshki, quintessential Russian pastries. Here’s a picture of Adrianne with her hostess.
One of the local crafts is articles made from birch bark. Adrianne bought two small birch bark boxes, which are somewhat reminiscent of shaker boxes.
Saint Petersburg - June 7th
Elaborate Russian Orthodox churches and cathedrals make up a significant fraction of things to be seen in Russia. We also spent time at St. Isaac’s Cathedral. The dome of St. Isaac’s dominates the Saint Petersburg skyline – it is the largest church in the city – and it is decorated with a huge amount of gold (about 200 pounds of gold leaf – that’s a lot of surface area!), huge mosaics, lapis lazuli and malachite, and – as in all Russian Orthodox churches – lots and lots of icons.
After lunch we were supposed to take a hydrofoil ride to Peterhof – the summer palace of Russian royalty, but there was an economic conference in Saint Petersburg and the hydrofoils were banned from the Neva River as a security measure. We went to Peterhof by bus. I was a bit disappointed, as I’d been looking forward to the hydrofoil ride. But Peterhof was definitely not a disappointment. There are around 150 fountains on the grounds and dozens of gilded statues. Consider that this entire area was laid to waste in 1944 by the retreating German Army after the 900-day Siege of Leningrad (the Soviet-era name for Saint Petersburg). Many of the sculptures and fountains had to be recreated from photographs. My favorite fountain, and one of the oldest, has four bronze ducks on a rotating frame. Water squirts from their mouths, and somehow the water makes a quacking sound. It’s not a big fountain, and it’s not centrally located, but it’s my favorite. This fountain was saved from being despoiled by burying it under a pile of dirt.
It occurred to me that if Peterhof were in the United States, it would probably be an adults-only attraction. Many of the statues have “naughty bits”, and the perverts who govern us would either drape the statues, alter them (heaven forbid), or restrict attendance. How sad!
On Saturday evening, during dinner, we left Saint Petersburg and sailed up the Neva River toward Lake Ladoga, the largest lake (by area) in Europe.
Saint Petersburg - June 6th
Saint Petersburg - June 5th
Thursday began with an optional tour of Catherine’s Palace which lasted for the morning. We were back on the ship for lunch. I won’t describe Catherine’s Palace here because my description wouldn’t measure up to the excellent description on Wikipedia (click on the link above). The purple group’s bus broke down on the way back from Catherine’s Palace, and the Kleinfields were not pleased (to put it mildly) with how their P.D. handled the situation. By evening they had been moved to the green group at their own request.
After lunch our Hermitage Guide, Ksenia Belous, met us at the ship and we went by Metro to The Hermitage Museum. I again defer to Wikipedia’s excellent description of the museum, but Wikipedia doesn’t have a page about our guide, and I cannot say enough about her. Partly because we were a group of only five, but mostly because we were guided by Ksenia, we really felt like we got a first class tour of The Hermitage Museum. As we were finishing the trip her boyfriend met us all outside The Hermitage and drove us back to the ship. That was the only way he was going to get to see Ksenia that evening, and I must say that I don’t blame him for going out of his way to get to spend time with her. The only downside ( if you want to call it that) was that I brought home two Saint Petersburg Metro tokens at the end of the trip.
Our Russian River Cruise - June 2nd through June 17th
We had no idea how long we were going to be there, and neither did Canadian Immigration, so the two Immigration Inspectors they called in from home at that ungodly hour began processing all of us just in case were going to have to be sent to local hotels (I wonder if St. John’s has enough hotel rooms to accommodate all the passengers from a full Boeing 777?).
We spent about two hours in the baggage claim area where there are perhaps twenty seats – oh yeah, and the baggage carousels. Alana De La Garza (yeah, the one from Law and Order) and her new hubby got two of them. Most of the rest of us sat on the carousels – some in the prone position attempting to sleep. There wasn’t even a vending machine there, but it wouldn’t have made much difference – there probably wasn’t a single Canadian dime in the pockets of the whole contingent.
Once the problem (which was exactly as expected) was repaired (by pulling the power plug from a defunct cooling fan under the instrument panel and taping the cord out of harm’s way), we were reboarded and went on to London, arriving six hours late and far too late to connect to the one daily flight from London to Saint Petersburg.
Heathrow is very confusing. For one thing we were expecting to land at Terminal 4. That’s a temporary situation. Flights from the US are supposed to arrive at the new terminal 5, but because of the initial electro-mechanical disaster with the baggage handling system in T5, Newark flights are temporarily sent to T4 – unless, that is, they arrive at a busing gate. We landed at a busing gate, and the bus took us to T5. That’s where our connecting flight left from several hours earlier, but in the confusion we wound up taking a connecting bus to T4. When we got to T4 Adrianne missed her pocket book. We went through all four bags – two roll-aboards and two small hand-carry bags – two or three times. We found her passport, which she handed to me to hold, but the pocketbook was nowhere to be found.
Now nearly in a panic, we asked if there was a way to get back to the plane. There was not. We were directed to the baggage office – you know, where you go when your bags don’t arrive – but to get there we had to go through UK Immigration, and to do that we had to fill out a landing card for each of us and we needed our passports, and we couldn’t find Adrianne’s. We went through all four bags twice more before Adrianne remembered handing her passport to me. I found it in my pocket. We quickly went through UK Immigration and headed to the opposite end of the baggage claim hall (everywhere we went at Heathrow was at the opposite end of where we first entered) to the bag office where we explained our dilemma. Fortunately they weren’t busy, and one of the gentlemen on duty grabbed his jacket and went out to the airplane to look for the pocketbook. In the meantime, the other gentlemen told us that we had been rescheduled for the Saint Petersburg flight on the following day. Twenty minutes later, when the first gentleman showed up with the pocketbook in hand, our panic level dropped significantly.
An hour or two later we arrived at the Renaissance Hotel, where British Air picked up the tab for the room and meals. There were three couples headed for the same Grand Circle ship on our flight – we met both at the airport in St. John’s, and I remembered the name of one couple. They were also in the Renaissance Hotel, so we connected and had dinner together. We later learned that the third couple connected to Saint Petersburg on Lufthansa via Munich. We could have made that connection despite all the confusion at Heathrow had it been offered to us, but it wasn’t. We and the Kleinfields arrived exactly one day late to Saint Petersburg where we were met by Grand Circle representatives and taken to the ship. It was almost dinner time.